Monday, August 10, 2009

4th of July - McIlleces (part 2)

This was the 1st annual 4th of July McIllece Family Fun Run & Breakfast. As many of the family (and a great neighbor) as could, gathered at Joan's house for the family 5k (6 times around the block) and a pancake breakfast. Boys went one way around the block and girls went the other - that way we could high-five each other on the way around. It was awesome.

D getting a little help from counsin Anthony
Cora practicing for next year when she can walk
My big finish
Afterwards, we had a family softball game, a trip to Sonic for some ice cream deliciousness, and rested up for the family (and neighbor) BBQ, A's birthday celebration, and fireworks show - put on my Z, Anthony and Uncle Russell. Nothing like good food, and great family time to celebrate a holiday. My family was only mildy disappointed that we could put on our own 'real' fireworks show like we did in India, but OSHA does live here... darn it!

Together with Family - McIlleces (part 1)

Z mowed the lawn at Donny & Lena's house with their broken lawn mower. Only afterwards did he realize that the self-propelled feature still worked. Bummer, Z!
June 2009

So after spending almost two weeks in Chicago we flew to Salt Lake City, UT to spend time with Dave's side of the family. Looking back, it's amazing how fast the time went. I was there for almost 5 weeks. Z spent a week at BYU for EFY (Especially for Youth) a week long youth camp. Dave and I celebrated our 16th anniversary (a little late) at the beautiful Homestead Resort in Midway. Why does that make me feel so old? Donny & Lena taught us how to play Frisbee Golf. They actually have Frisbee Golf courses now. Where was I when this all started? I renewed my Costco membership and after the initial shock of shopping adjustments, have thoroughly enjoyed the experience. I was the unofficial McIllece family grocery shopper and cook, which was a great way to speed the adjustment back into cooking for myself again. I do love to cook. And what better way to enjoy time with family then with good food, right? We met the Seipert family at Lagoon for some amusement park fun. It sure was great to see them again. The kids really enjoyed hanging out again, especially Z & Mo (wink, wink). Saying good-bye, for real this time, wasn't fun. Great friends are such a blessing in life!

Frisbee Golf
Donny, Kelly, Me, Lena & Wendy at Lagoon
Z & Mo

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

A Lesson in Hawaiian


Yesterday, Dave and I attended the 'newcomer's briefing' at Hickham AFB. Included in the briefing was a tour of parts of the island on a tour bus complete with our guide 'Cousin Dwight'. He was a great ambassador for all things Hawaiian, and included a little lesson in Hawaiian for us haoles (foreigners).

The Hawaiian Alphabet:
A E I O U (pronounced as they do in Spanish)
H K L M N P W
Some words we learned:
  • Aloha - hello, good-bye, & I love you - depends on how you say it
  • A Ole Ha - hello with foreigners - literally means 'no breath'. Hawaiians would greet each other by touching foreheads with 'aloha' thereby sharing a breath. Foreigners shook hands, so no breath.
  • A'ina - Land
  • A'i - Yes
  • A'oli - No
  • E Komo Mai - Welcome
  • Ala - Path, Road
  • Moana - Ocean
  • O'ahu - The Gathering Place
  • Honolulu - Calm Bay
  • U'a - Rain
  • Wai Kiki - Water Fountain
  • Ka'Pu - Sacred, No Trespass
  • Mahalo - Thank you

Monday, August 3, 2009

Catching up... the beginning of the end.

We're finally in our own place in Hawaii, and I can get back to documenting our crazy lives. It's hard to believe it has been more than 2 months since we left our Indian home. I've got a lot to catch up on, including: goodbyes, welcome back to the US, our time in Chicago, Olmsted Banquet, Salt Lake City, Lagoon, Kling Family Reunion, our arrival in Hawaii, and all the other various and sundry things we accomplished over the last 2 months - not to mention FOOD we've enjoyed. I'm pleased to report that I haven't forgotten how to cook, but for some reason, the dishes aren't getting done. Go figure!


Bittersweet Goodbyes

On May 18 the packers began their 5 days of packing up our household belongings. I swear it was about 20 little Indian men, and reminded me of what it looks like when you step on an ant pile; however, what LOOKED like quick work took a surprisingly long time. I had my last day of Yoga which involved 'graduation' and a delicious lunch. It was a HUGE relief to have completed this program and it will benefit me for many years to come. And really... how many people can say they learned to teach yoga in India? We checked into the Hyatt that night and spent the next 10 days between there and the house finalizing everything for our departure. On the 25th we had our final housing inspection and had to say goodbye to Manjula and Keeran. It was very, very sad and very difficult to say good-bye - something I am completely inept at doing. As I am sitting in my new house typing this, I am realizing that while I appreciate my privacy and quiet time, I sure miss their friendship and smiling faces everyday. I haven't been alone for a long time. Not a bad thing, just another adjustment.


We said our good-byes on our last Sunday, May 24th, at church, where all 6 of us gave talks in Sacrament meeting. I was so proud of the kids... it isn't easy to get up in front of people and speak. They did a fantastic job! We will really miss our friends there. So many of our friends from church enriched our experience there in ways we couldn't have expected.


The kids enjoyed their last days at school, the likes of which they will probably never attend in their lives again, and had a memorable, looonnnggg ride to school via elephant. We spent the next day pretty much doing laundry at the Seipert's house and packing up our bags from the hotel. We checked out of the hotel mid afternoon, left our bags behind the desk and after dinner waited in the lobby until our airport shuttle about 11pm for our 2am flight.


We were fortunate to be on the same flight as Kelly and the kids headed back to the States for their R&R break, but had to part ways in Frankfurt, Germany and head to our separate destinations. We avoided the normal, tear-filled good-byes by saying "see you at Lagoon in a few weeks!"


Our flight to Chicago was long, and exhausting, but as we got nearer to 'home' the excitement was palpable. Dave might have been more excited than any of us, as he kept snapping pictures of the in-flight map showing our airplane crossing into U.S. air space. Landing is Chicago was quite emotional for me, and I'm even getting a little teary-eyed as I type, remembering the flood of emotions I felt. And knowing my mom was 'in the building' was enough to send me over the edge. I will remember that first hug for a very long time.

Saturday, June 27, 2009

A Little Perspective...

I could start making all sorts of apologies for not posting, but it all boils down to Blogger. I HATE the add photo interface, and trying to move them around in the post. WHY is it so difficult? (sigh) If you can't tell, Ange is having 'motional turmoil: loving America, missing India, loving family, missing family, loving shopping, missing shopping, loving food, missing food, loving orderliness, missing chaos, and I've gained 3 pounds. But... yesterday there was a fantastic storm that yielded this beauty to put it all in perspective. Sigh... everything will work out just fine.

Monday, June 8, 2009

Since we've been back

We've been back almost a week and it's obvious to me that we won't have really exciting stuff to blog about anymore, at least relative to the last two years. I've finally checked out some of the photos on my camera and thought to share a little from our now humdrum lives back in civilization.

On the plane... why is it always freezing?

This was upon arrival at O'hare in Chicago - 18+ hours of travel time

Our first Saturday home we had a family get-together. My grandparents came up from Lake of the Ozarks in Missouri. Grandpa Z missed a step at the rest stop - broke his thumb and ended up with 17 stitches on his face. Aside from how awful he looked, it sure was good to see them.

My mom, sister and I pitched in to get this bad boy for my dad for Father's Day. Wish I could have captured his face on camera - like a Ralphie on Christmas opening his "Red Ryder carbine-action 200 shot range model air rifle with a compass in the stock, and this thing which tells time"

Dave and I were able to attend the Olmsted Foundation Orientation and Banquet for the newly selected Olmsted Scholar Class of 2010. It was so great to get to meet them and see the excitement (and a little trepidation) in their eyes as they prepared for this life-changing adventure. It's difficult to believe it was 3 years ago that we were sitting in those chairs in mild state of panic. Even more difficult to believe is the fact that I survived it all. What an amazing experience!

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Nesting


So it's been 4 days since we arrived back in the US, and it's still 'exciting and new'. Grocery stores (or ANY store for that matter) are still overwhelming. I am almost paralyzed by the selection and prices and 'I don't NEED this' keeps running through my head, so shopping has become more of a spectator sport, at least for the present. The kids are enjoying the beautiful Chicago weather, green grass to run through, and fresh air to breathe. I can't even begin to describe how amazing fresh air is. I sleep with my window open and night and when I wake up in the morning with that first morning scent, it's enough to make me tear up a bit (not that that takes much). Blue skies and fresh air can do so much to lift one's heart. Many times through the day, I find myself singing "God Bless America" or "America the Beautiful" in my head. Don't get me wrong, I LOVED living in India. But I appreciated India for what it is, and for the opportunity and adventure we would live - temporarily. I am deeply grateful for my American citizenship, and this experience has only increased that.

So, today started with dishes, folding laundry, and computer maintenance for my mom, all mundane and seemingly boring tasks, but I found them quite gratifying. I'm sure that will pass quickly, but for the moment I can sigh contentedly and start humming patriotic songs.